In those days Israel had no king; everyone did as they saw fit.
~Judges 17:6
This is a great question! I would say that my troubles come from more of my circumstances than from my internal weaknesses. I, like all of us, have gotten ourselves into fights or disagreements with not just family members but friends as well. I am an individual that usually doesn't like to get into those kinds of situations. Many of them do trouble me and yes at times they have gotten me into some sort of trouble. In order to resolve these problems, I usually turn to God and seek his help and advice. I pray for him to give me continued strength and to search my own heart for the right way to take care of things as well as the right words to say to the person the next time I get to talk to them. I also reflect on what had happened between me and that friend or family member and after a while come to the realization where I have very possibly have gone wrong. I then feel very sorry for anything I've said or done to hurt the other individual and want to tell them how genuinely sorry I am and then pray that between that point and the next time I get to talk to that person that God just speaks to them and opens up their heart to hopefully forgive me of my recent wrongdoings. I beleive with this last step it can take some patience to come to the resolve, but it is always worthi it in the end when we come back together in peace.