At noon, darkness came over the whole land until three in the afternoon. And at three in the afternoon Jesus cried out in a loud voice, “Eloi, Eloi, lema sabachthani?” (which means “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?”).
When some of those standing near heard this, they said, “Listen, he’s calling Elijah.”
Someone ran, filled a sponge with wine vinegar, put it on a staff, and offered it to Jesus to drink. “Now leave him alone. Let’s see if Elijah comes to take him down,” he said.
With a loud cry, Jesus breathed his last.
The curtain of the temple was torn in two from top to bottom. And when the centurion, who stood there in front of Jesus, saw how he died, he said, “Surely this man was the Son of God!”
Some women were watching from a distance. Among them were Mary Magdalene, Mary the mother of James the younger and of Joseph, and Salome.
~Mark 15:33-40
Why do you think these women went and watched Jesus die on the cross? What drew them? Imagine, if you can, how they reacted when they saw he was dead.
- they were followers of Jesus and they cared for their teacher very much
- I imagine they were greatly filled with sorrow
Would you have gone to the cross? Would you have watched "from a distance" or stayed at home? Try to imagine yourself there. Does this image change anything about what you feel for Jesus?
- yes
- I would have watched from a distance
- I always feel full of sorrow on Good Friday so I would say that my feelings have not changed
In Galilee these women had followed him and cared for his needs. Many other women who had come up with him to Jerusalem were also there.
~Mark 15:41
What do you think these women might have done for Jesus? How do you think they "cared for his needs?? Why would all of these women follow Jesus to Jerusalem? What do you think they saw in Jesus that they didn't see in other men?
- listened to His teaching and washed his feet
- they believed in his teaching
- they saw that he brings the truth and will give himself to suffer and die for us
It is very likely that these women knew following Jesus to Jerusalem could be dangerous, but they went anyway. Would you still follow Jesus anywehre if it meant danger to you or to your family?
It was Preparation Day (that is, the day before the Sabbath). So as evening approached, Joseph of Arimathea, a prominent member of the Council, who was himself waiting for the kingdom of God, went boldly to Pilate and asked for Jesus’ body. Pilate was surprised to hear that he was already dead. Summoning the centurion, he asked him if Jesus had already died. When he learned from the centurion that it was so, he gave the body to Joseph. So Joseph bought some linen cloth, took down the body, wrapped it in the linen, and placed it in a tomb cut out of rock. Then he rolled a stone against the entrance of the tomb. Mary Magdalene and Mary the mother of Joseph saw where he was laid.
~Mark 15:42-47
Why were the two Marys interested in where Jesus was buried? What might have they been planning to do?
- to help prepare the body for burial
- pray for his prophesy
Again, put yourself as a woman in this event. Would you have followed all the way to Jesus' tomb? What might have you been feeling besides grief?
Early on the first day of the week, while it was still dark, Mary Magdalene went to the tomb and saw that the stone had been removed from the entrance. So she came running to Simon Peter and the other disciple, the one Jesus loved, and said, “They have taken the Lord out of the tomb, and we don’t know where they have put him!”
So Peter and the other disciple started for the tomb. Both were running, but the other disciple outran Peter and reached the tomb first. He bent over and looked in at the strips of linen lying there but did not go in. Then Simon Peter came along behind him and went straight into the tomb. He saw the strips of linen lying there, as well as the cloth that had been wrapped around Jesus’ head. The cloth was still lying in its place, separate from the linen. Finally the other disciple, who had reached the tomb first, also went inside. He saw and believed. (They still did not understand from Scripture that Jesus had to rise from the dead.)
~John 20:1-9
What did Mary think had happened to Jesus? Why was Jesus' resurection so hard for them to believe?
- That his body had been taken away
- because they ouly thought him as a human being instead of a divine being
Would Jesus' resurction from the dead have been hard for you to believe? Why or why not?
- I think I would have reacted the same as Mary because I probably would have thought someone would have taken his body as well before the time of his resurection
Then the disciples went back to where they were staying.
Now Mary stood outside the tomb crying. As she wept, she bent over to look into the tomb and saw two angels in white, seated where Jesus’ body had been, one at the head and the other at the foot.
They asked her, “Woman, why are you crying?”
“They have taken my Lord away,” she said, “and I don’t know where they have put him.” At this, she turned around and saw Jesus standing there, but she did not realize that it was Jesus.
He asked her, “Woman, why are you crying? Who is it you are looking for?”
Thinking he was the gardener, she said, “Sir, if you have carried him away, tell me where you have put him, and I will get him.”
Jesus said to her, “Mary.”
She turned toward him and cried out in Aramaic, “Rabboni!” (which means “Teacher”).
~John 20:10-16
Why do you think Mary didn't recognize Jesus? What made her recognize him? Why would Jesus' speaking her name make her know it was really him?
- she was to scared that the worst was true
- he spoke her name
- She thought Jesus was the gardener and she didn't know who the gardener was at all
Do you think God knows you by name? If you're not sure, read Isaiah 43:1.
- of course I do and I hold this scripture to be true:
But now, this is what the LORD says—
he who created you, Jacob,
he who formed you, Israel:
“Do not fear, for I have redeemed you;
I have summoned you by name; you are mine.