When one of the Pharisees invited Jesus to have dinner with him, he went to the Pharisee’s house and reclined at the table. A woman in that town who lived a sinful life learned that Jesus was eating at the Pharisee’s house, so she came there with an alabaster jar of perfume.
~Luke 7:36-37
What do you think the woman was looking for when she came in to see Jesus at Simon's house? Attention? Forgiveness? An opportunity to express her love? Do you think everyone at the dinner knew who and what she was?
Describe what sort of feelings this woman might have had as she entered the house. When have you felt that way? Were you brave enough to continue like the woman did, or did you stop? Describe the situation and your actions.
- She was probably feeling weary and full of sorrow. Yess I have felt this way before, but as of when is hard to remember. I believe I did continue on because it is best to get the worst behind you. There could have been a time when I said something hurtful and I didn't really mean it, but after thinking things over, I would feel bad for saying what I said, and I would go back and apologize to that person.
As she stood behind him at his feet weeping, she began to wet his feet with her tears. Then she wiped them with her hair, kissed them and poured perfume on them.
~Luke 7:38
Put this extravigant scene into your own words. Why do you think the woman acted this way?
- She knelt down at his feet and wept. Her tears beagan to soad the flesh on his feet. She mopped up the tears she made with her hair, kissed his feet and doused them with perfume.
- She must have realized taht Jesus was a sinless man and she wanted to be forgiven by him
How willing are you to be totally transparent in your worship? What would need to happen to make you as open in expressing your love for Jesus as this woman was?
- very willing
- at the current moment, nothing needs to happen
When the Pharisee who had invited him saw this, he said to himself, “If this man were a prophet, he would know who is touching him and what kind of woman she is—that she is a sinner.”
~Luke 7:39
Describe the pharisee's attitued toward Jesus and toward the sinful woman.
- he felt doubt towards Jesus and disgust towards the sinful woman
Who are you more like: the judgemental pharisee or the broken woman?
- I would say that I am more like the broken woman
Jesus answered him, “Simon, I have something to tell you.”
“Tell me, teacher,” he said.
“Two people owed money to a certain moneylender. One owed him five hundred denarii, and the other fifty. Neither of them had the money to pay him back, so he forgave the debts of both. Now which of them will love him more?”
Simon replied, “I suppose the one who had the bigger debt forgiven.”
“You have judged correctly,” Jesus said.
~Luke 7:40-43
What did Jesus want Simon to understand from this story? Do you think he did?
- that those with deeper wrongs should be forgiven first
- yes
In what ways can you be understanding and sympathetic towards those whose lives have been shattered by sin, like this woman? Towards those whose lives are characterized by judging otherse, like the pharisee? Who needs forgiveness more?
- by forgiving them
- the sinful woman
Picture yourself as this sinful woman. Who has been like Jesus to you? Who has acted toward you like the pharisee?
- my two best friends
- people that were jealous of me in high school
Then he turned toward the woman and said to Simon, “Do you see this woman? I came into your house. You did not give me any water for my feet, but she wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair. You did not give me a kiss, but this woman, from the time I entered, has not stopped kissing my feet. You did not put oil on my head, but she has poured perfume on my feet. Therefore, I tell you, her many sins have been forgiven—as her great love has shown. But whoever has been forgiven little loves little.”
Then Jesus said to her, “Your sins are forgiven.”
The other guests began to say among themselves, “Who is this who even forgives sins?”
Jesus said to the woman, “Your faith has saved you; go in peace.”
~Luke 7:44-50
Jesus here talks about this woman using her as an example to teach something to Simon. What do you suppose she was thinking at this point?
- she was probably shocked that Jesus was defending her
Have you ever been made an example, good or bad, for others? How did you feel?
- yes, and sometimes that made me feel more important