When a Samaritan woman came to draw water, Jesus said to her, “Will you give me a drink?” (His disciples had gone into the town to buy food.)
The Samaritan woman said to him, “You are a Jew and I am a Samaritan woman. How can you ask me for a drink?” (For Jews do not associate with Samaritans.)
~John 4:7-9
What makes it obvious that the Samaritan woman was suprised by Jesus' request?
- that Jews and Samaritans don't associate with each other
This woman, an outcast because of her race and her lifestyle, found acceptance in Jesus. When have you associated with someone considered an outcast or befriended someone that wasn't part of your group?
- I think the first time I associated with someone taht could have been considered an outcast was probably in seventh grade. This girl wasn't the brightest of the bunch, nor the prettiest of girls, but also her family life at home wasn't so great either
Jesus answered her, “If you knew the gift of God and who it is that asks you for a drink, you would have asked him and he would have given you living water.”
“Sir,” the woman said, “you have nothing to draw with and the well is deep. Where can you get this living water? Are you greater than our father Jacob, who gave us the well and drank from it himself, as did also his sons and his livestock?”
Jesus answered, “Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again, but whoever drinks the water I give them will never thirst. Indeed, the water I give them will become in them a spring of water welling up to eternal life.”
The woman said to him, “Sir, give me this water so that I won’t get thirsty and have to keep coming here to draw water.”
He told her, “Go, call your husband and come back.”
“I have no husband,” she replied.
Jesus said to her, “You are right when you say you have no husband. The fact is, you have had five husbands, and the man you now have is not your husband. What you have just said is quite true.”
~John 4:10-18
Do you think the woman understood what sort of water Jesus was speaking of here? Looking at her lifestyle, what do you think she was really thirsty for?
- no, she was probably just thirsty for regular water
What have you used to try to fulfill your spiritual thirsts? Clothes? Family? Carer? Recreation? Christ?
- I think I have used Christ to fulfill my spiritual thirsts by talking to him through prayer
“Sir,” the woman said, “I can see that you are a prophet. Our ancestors worshiped on this mountain, but you Jews claim that the place where we must worship is in Jerusalem.”
“Woman,” Jesus replied, “believe me, a time is coming when you will worship the Father neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem. You Samaritans worship what you do not know; we worship what we do know, for salvation is from the Jews. Yet a time is coming and has now come when the true worshipers will worship the Father in the Spirit and in truth, for they are the kind of worshipers the Father seeks. God is spirit, and his worshipers must worship in the Spirit and in truth.”
~John 4:19-24
The woman abruptly changes the subject here. Was she really interested in the answer or was she more interested in moving the topic away from her lifestyle?
- I think she was possibly interested in Jesus' answer to her previous question
Is it hard for you to face up to the areas of your life that need changing? What tactics do you use to keep the light of God's work and spirit away from your weaknesses and sins?
- sometimes
- prayer
The woman said, “I know that Messiah” (called Christ) “is coming. When he comes, he will explain everything to us.”
Then Jesus declared, “I, the one speaking to you—I am he.”
~John 4:25-26
This is the very first time Jesus acknowledges exactly who he is. Why do you think he would choose to tell this woman, an outcast of society, instead of the leaders of Jewish religion and culture, or even his own desciples? Do you find his action delightful or just a bit distasteful?
- because God helps out those who are mistreated first
- I find his action delightful
Just then his disciples returned and were surprised to find him talking with a woman. But no one asked, “What do you want?” or “Why are you talking with her?”
Then, leaving her water jar, the woman went back to the town and said to the people, “Come, see a man who told me everything I ever did. Could this be the Messiah?” They came out of the town and made their way toward him.
~John 4:27-30
What one part of their conversation convinced the woman that Jesus was who he said he was?
- when Jesus said "I am he"
What convinces you of the truth and validity of Jesus' claims? If you could meet him at a well, as this woman did, what would you ask him? What would convince you that he is what he said he is?
- the fact that he says we will thirst no more spiritually if we believe in him
- The only thing I can think is "Is it really you?", but in a way, that makes me feel like I'm talking like I don't believe in him, which is not true at all
- the way he would speak to me
Many of the Samaritans from that town believed in him because of the woman’s testimony, “He told me everything I ever did.” So when the Samaritans came to him, they urged him to stay with them, and he stayed two days. And because of his words many more became believers.
They said to the woman, “We no longer believe just because of what you said; now we have heard for ourselves, and we know that this man really is the Savior of the world.”
~John 4:39-42
What does the Samaritan woman do when she realizes who Jesus is?
- she tells the people of the town she is from
Once we've accepted the truth of Jesus' claims to be the Christ, what is the best response for us to make? How often do we actually respond in the way the Samaritan woman responded, and with as much enthusiasm?
- we should respond with as much joy as the Samaritan woman had, and we probaby should do this more often